Yeah. But what you see, you see that happen in financial services all the time where the guy talks to the guy and I think that’s one of the key elements female advisors when you look at when I started out, it was like one out of 100 maybe was a female advisor. Do you mind sharing that? I love the philosophical conversation. No one’s going to die. Actually, the reality is we had always – we’ve been married for 24 years in a week or so and for the whole time we’ve been married, my wife particularly had wanted to spend some time outside the country for no specific reason. This week’s first review comes to us from BenschD who says, “Incredible guests and insight. * Carl Richards, CFP(R) of Behavior Gap in London, England. Thanks so much for listening in and hopefully this episode with Carl Richards helped you out even more on that front . I think it’s similar to I like the doctor analogy that created The Checklist Manifesto book by Atul Gawande that I think that idea of a pre-meeting checklist, I also think it’s kind of a cool to think of it as a pre-meeting ritual where you just sit down for a second and reconnect with that and maybe you’re right. Both the work that you do but more importantly, frankly, than the work you and I do, the work that you’re doing in a certain listener, watcher, viewer, I guess. Yeah. Like I took a pottery class when I was eight and you should see like the pieces of paper that actually – and when I present live to groups 100 people to 3,000 people like they’re just a mess like what I’m doing live. And again, it’s really hard, especially from a US perspective. What are your thoughts around just getting out there and jumping in? And for those, of you that have interest in diving deeper or figuring out how you may be able to have our team help you implement many of the ideas shared on the show, my day job happens to be consulting financial advisors from all over the US on how to grow their business and design a practice that serves them versus them serving it. Well, I just want to say thank you. Not only do we read every single comment, but this will help the show rank and get discovered by new listeners. Welcome to The Society of Advice. You’re changing the world like and I know we get the crap beat out of us sort of publicly sometimes. I think the best advisors when I really deconstruct it, it’s basically they are therapists that just so happen to talk about relationships around money and that’s the very best and you hit a lot of things there, Carl. Now, you just have to remember what they had to overcome to do that to realize the position you’re in. [00:15:35] Brad Johnson: Yeah. So, you’re recalling that. They do not care about your solutions. We have the biggest computers. It was like here’s your retirement account, here’s your bank account, and we’re going to do this and then when you retire, we’ll reverse the arrow like it was just sort of a cash flow because you’ve seen the estate planners do this all the time. I also think and I know he would agree, is fail when no one’s watching and then keep failing on even bigger stages like I love that sort of opposite end of that is Seth Godin, that often says, “Do things that may not work,” and if you’re going to do something in public that may not work like there’s got to be that tension. I want to – where is it? The client or the prospect they don’t care about your solutions. They’re not going to tell you that and even whatever high-powered bro that thinks he’s so cool, he’s scared to death. For those of you unfamiliar with Carl, he is a CFP and creator of the Sketch Guy column, which has appeared weekly in … They were thinking we have one in Hawaii and we want to buy another one. Working with one of the largest if not the largest brokerage firms in the US. And oftentimes we’re so worried about our solutions, we don’t actually uncover what their problems are. Bill has this amazing question. I believe those. How can I be helpful? My biggest wish is that the general anxiety level of our communities regarding money would go down and that people would find peace in their relationship with money. Five stars. Kent sent it and I say that because Ron gets a bazillion emails from people like us and Kent sends a note saying, “Hey, you’ll like this, Ron.” And I still have that email because the next email was from Ron and it is the one I show. And so, I think that’s the other, the more benign version of this is just a natural progression as you move along the industry, any industry, attorneys are guilty of this that any industry as you get smarter and smarter and more and more experienced, you think someone cares. So, whatever this print’s name that’s kind of in your scribble and I think so for those that are just listening on audio, it’s a straight line where you are today on the left-hand side, on the right-hand side where you want to go, and in the middle how do you get there. Again, and that’s one case wherein Steve was the not engaged partner in this case the wife was not the engaged partner. Yeah. It’s the sign that you’ve done something right like when you ask a good question, a good question, by definition, is something somebody hasn’t been asked before. You got all the time that you mean when you say you want some time. This content is intended only for financial professionals and is provided for informational purposes only. I’m sure they walked to the car and were like, “What just happened to us?” versus when they go to meet with your competitor who’s going to say, “You want blue? I that first meeting you practiced and you get training like I would record these with permission. I, in fact, I’ll hold this up for those watching on YouTube, I actually have a Carl Richards print from – this is at least a decade old when you originally I think started offering them on your website so I’ve been following you for a long time, but I’ve never actually heard the origin story of how did you turn these simplistic sketches into a career and everything that’s come from there. Carl Richards, CFP® New York Times Columnist and Author, The Behavior Gap: Simple Ways to Stop Doing Dumb Things with Money As a woman who personally knows the high price of money silence, I highly recommend that you read Kathleen Burns Kingsbury’s latest book, Breaking Money Silence . In today’s conversation, I grab some time with Carl Richards. Come on. [00:16:45] Carl Richards: Yeah. I live for that tension like I’m trying to reduce everything in my life that protects me from that tension like I want to feel that like, “Oh my gosh, this may not work but I’m going to do it anyway,” and just know that I don’t know anyone. We solve some of the world’s problems because of that. It hasn’t changed. Would you do them for us?” And I knew enough at that point in my life to say yes and figure things out later. Well, and that’s just so important for like all of you listing like you have a really hard job and this is – everything we’re talking about here is just human nature. What started out as sharing research to foster client interest in his fee-only planning firm, Presada (previously called Clearwater Asset Management), Behavior Gap has rapidly grown into a community of planners (and fans) across the nation. I love reading each and every one and it helps make the show better know how I can better resonate with my listeners out there. Thanks for listening to this episode of the Elite Advisor Blueprint. If you have a sister she’s lying and so as your mom. Again, and that’s one case wherein Steve was the not engaged partner in this case the wife was not the engaged partner. What did you leave with?” I was like, “Well, I left with my daughter like that was cool.” He’s like, “No.” “But I also left with a piece of paper with some scribbles on it that I couldn’t even read.” He’s like, “What did you do with it?” So, I went to another place and I gave it to them, a bunch of scary people in white coats and they made me sign a document that said like if she grew a third arm within that. People, as soon as they hear the word goal and plan would just go, “Oh,” because they think you’re going to ask them whether utility bills are going to be 17.5, years from now. Nobody likes that. Do you find people more present and more aware in New Zealand or is it the same bustle that you find in the US as well? Post would be really engaged in the process of feedback whether you have a coach or your assistant or a group of advisors in the office, I would create a ritual around feedback. You just back up and go, “How do I like to be treated as a human?” Like I’m busy. In this age of like automated investment stuff and fast calculators and should we even use the word robo like please go the other direction like please be more human. So, you sort of got to answer independently and then you have made a judgment decision already, which one’s the more verbally dominant. So, I’m glad to hear the show is helping you and other advisors out there bridge that gap. Last point, think about a doctor. [00:04:39] Carl Richards: Yeah. Oh, that’s awesome,” like none of that. I’ve seen this over and over. [47:00] An example of the power of treating a non-engaged partner in a relationship like a human being – and the incredible insights discovered along the way. And before you go, I’ve got a quick favor to ask. I also don’t remember thinking good job because I didn’t feel like it was stumbling but when we see someone else fail, we’re like a cheerleader and like, “Go, you can do it.”, And then now let’s switch the roles like think about the last time you got out and failed, and what are the feelings there? It’s awesome and I’m glad. Love the work that you and Adam are doing out in Ohio. I think that’s the beginning like the other stuff like how do you draw? So, if you’re listening an advisor out there like go back and re-listen to that last five minutes because on my side, coaching advisors for over a decade, it’s like I don’t know what happens when you become an advisor. [00:35:33] Brad Johnson: Yeah. I’m sure a lot of your listeners can relate to this, sitting at a desk when I was a financial advisor, a big brokerage firm, it will go unnamed, but has a bull as its symbol and is owned by a bank sitting at a desk trying to explain a relatively complex subject to a client and these were smart like all of our clients, smart, intelligent, successful people. Results from the use of these concepts are not guaranteed. It’s scary. He’s like, “Hey, hey,” like option 2.5 she’s like, “Whoa, we didn’t come here for you to give us options that we’re unqualified to decide between. Courtney was working with somebody. That’s somebody’s life. Yeah, it’s funny. Number one is that I just want to go back and rewind these because these are really important things I run into all the time that I think advisors glance over sometimes. Next review comes to us from user elmorC, who says, “New loyal follower. Because oftentimes what I’ll run into we’re all about the analytics and tracking your results from your marketing and your ROIs but sometimes people will discount, “Oh, they just want to get a prospect,” and they won’t actually self-assess and say, “Wait. “Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the cat. But seeing the other side it’s interesting too. Benefits are an increasingly important part of the mix for RIAs while IBDs are looking to take a page from their smaller competitors’ playbook. What if we just did reality-based financial plan? It’s possible to grow your business and work less, I promise. We need you to do it because you need to make a difference because there’s a lot of people not making a difference in our industry. So, if you like to apply to see if it makes sense for us to have a one-on-one conversation on how to overcome what may be getting in your way, you can do that at BradleyJohnson.com/Apply. Is your family dynamic and being out of the US? Carl Richards Founder, Presada Capital Management Salt Lake City and Las Vegas. It’s all about connection in this business. I’m going to ask you both this question and it’s the only question that you can’t help each other on. We just don’t know how. Probably like two or three years but it didn’t until like the books came out, the first book I can’t even remember, I wanted to say it could have been 12. I know them and their impact on people's lives are enormous," he says. Maybe it was the T-shirts, which have appeared on the Wall Street Journal blog, or his sketches, which have become something of a trademark. They’ll give me like the details.” They’ll be like, “What should I do with it?” And I’m like, “Well, what problems do they have? The Cheshire Cat: Then it doesn’t much matter which way you go. And again, I understand where it comes from. “Would you tell me please, which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the cat. My wife is why that came to be. I do think that there is undoubtedly, okay, we got prefaces. Brad, why is money important to you? And so, that’s kind of the theme I’m hearing as well is you’re almost going into it like a private investigator trying to get to the root cause and when they give you surface-level answers, you’re like, “Well, why is that? Carl Richards is a Certified Financial Planner™ and creator of the Sketch Guy column, appearing weekly in The New York Times since 2010. So, don’t reject it out of hand. It’s been amazing. We need to make a difference. Like my mom and my sister and it turns out my sister was lying. All it had to do with this like could you engage with them as a human? Let me just say one more thing about this. I guarantee the writing you’re doing today compared to the writing you’re doing 10, 15, 20 years ago, dramatically different and improved based on just getting out there and iterating and practice. This was Courtney Poland of the story. Pam Houston who is a memoirist which I’ve never read like I’ve never read a memoir in my life. He’s also a regular contributor to Investment News, the Wall Street Journal, and other industry publications. A no-holds barred conversation for Real Financial Advisors with industry nerd Michael Kitces and client communication expert Carl Richards. [56:00] How to help clients understand why they need a plan in the first place – and why they rarely want to hear the word “plan” at all. I mean, like well this is a dumb question. LPL Financial and indie rivals like Raymond James, Wells Fargo FiNet and Kestra Financial completed at least 17 recruiting grabs of $800 million or more this year. That’s not always the breadwinner, by the way. Just think about this is like your golf swing and then bring that to meeting and sort of post-op meeting where you sit down and get a little feedback. So, can we go into the formation of your question that you formulated over years in this business that you would open kind of this discovery session with the very first appointment and why you settled on that question? We all feel it. I get hundreds of emails a week from them because they’re the ones reading the New York Times. They’ve got a million bucks. “Oh, so you need to have a conversation with your partner about this. This has become an absolute must-listen whenever a new episode is available.” Thanks so much for the kind words and the review. The first thing you need to understand is why like the tactical stuff it should be obvious like I had no art skills. And so, you see this, I was just reading. You’re doing public work. [00:47:09] Brad Johnson: Yeah. We specifically in all my writing, we try to remove footnotes, references, data, and studies because the opposite of what everybody else tries to do because I find if we include that, people want to argue about the data and they miss the point. With 350 firms on its client roster, the acquisition of Flourish gives the insurer a springboard into the independent advisor market. That’s why I think we do that, and it’s totally misinformed. Yeah. Thanks again for taking the time to share your thoughts. Julie, without knowing her last name, Julie is a hard-charging emergency room doctor managing partner of the biggest emergency department in the town I lived in at the time and most of your advisors are in the states, they know like how competitive that field is like this Julie has got to be on it. [01:01:30] Brad Johnson: Well, what’s that meant for your family? Wow. Yeah. It takes like five minutes without saying a word like reviews the question and then goes, “Okay. Can you like redraw it?” And when I saw that digitally, I was like, “Oh, digitally.” And this was early days in the ’98, ’99 so like the Internet, the World Wide Web, you can go get a sandwich while the two pages that were on it loaded like…. It’s just not true. And how could I help Julie without it, right? Yeah. The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right, Deep Creek: Finding Hope in the High Country, ← 060: Bryan Miles on How Financial Advisors Can Use Virtual Assistants to Save Time & Money, 062: Bo Eason on Telling Your Story and No Plan B For Being the Best →. As always, all the additional show notes, books mentioned, people discussed as well as a full transcript of the entire show can be found at BradleyJohnson.com/61 as well. And oftentimes we’re so worried about our solutions, we don’t actually uncover what their problems are. [00:59:40] Brad Johnson: Yes. And we need to change that and we need to get better at it but whatever spouse I can tell you hundreds of stories of spouses that appeared not interested and then when you engage them, you find out why. Some of our most successful, our highest growth offices or female offices and it’s because they are treating them like real human beings and having a conversation with both sides and actually asking these questions that require thought. Thanks for listening in and I will catch you on the next show. [26:59] How Carl discovered the importance of discovery meetings in financial services – and the power of asking the right opening question 3-5 minutes into his first conversation with a new client. [00:11:53] Carl Richards: No, I think that one, I remember who it was. It turns out an advisor named Kent I always remember because Kent changed my life and an advisor named Kent send it to – he happened to have some really casual friendship. If you start with the premise that the goal of the first meeting is to build trust like that’s a reasonable well-intentioned goal is to build trust. It’s a model we’ve replicated over and over in markets all over the country. So, that’s what we feel when we see someone else. It’s a well-intentioned belief that like, “Hey, you got to understand and I’m trying to help you with,” but what happens is people want to argue. The prescription is going to be on one page. Thank you. It’s actually crazy to think how we all met years ago after a few DMs exchange that on Twitter. Oh, why would that be important?” Like just asking more questions and, yeah, I think just the female advisor thing, I’ve been so gratified like we have a long ways to go but my experience with women advisors is they don’t seem to have a problem engaging men in conversations. Taking the first step is as simple as applying at bradleyjohnson.com/apply . Somebody says freedom, flexibility and you just keep digging. Like when I asked him, he was like, “I just want to golf more,” and I was like, “Well, did you not just hear what just happened between your wife like she just said something about a family? We haven’t built a full plan yet for you because you have asked us to.”. If you understand the problem, they don’t even want to know the details.” Now, I know like we’re going to explain it to them in compliance. Professionally, I started listening when I began my career in financial services in 2017. Yeah. I’ll make it quick. I know my way around estate planning stuff, but I just want to be told what to do at the back, in that book, at the back like that’s even more basic. And before you go, I’ve got a quick favor to ask. She just wrote a book called Deep Creek which was the last book I can remember that was over an inch thick that I finished. And again, it’s really hard, especially from a US perspective. “I diverged from the generic ‘dialing for dollars’ path to advancement and set out to learn from entrepreneurs and leaders from books,” writes advisor Chip Munn. Her name is Julie. I can think multiple times where advisors will call in and we’ll help them actually build the plan on our side so we’re marrying insurance planning with asset management and they’ll be like, “Hey, I’ve got a great prospect. And so, did that, anyway, clients says, “Can I take that home to my spouse?” and when I saw the piece of paper leave like physically like leave, I was like, “Huh, that’s interesting.” And then another every month or two of those buy-ins, somebody calls and say, “Hey, that thing you drew on the whiteboard while we’re in there, could you just scan it real quick and send it to me? Was that where it started? It becomes an ongoing process, so I like to think in 90-day segments like here’s what we’re going to work on for the next 90 days and the other analogy I use quickly is pilots. I’m thoroughly impressed. I think it’s in the book. Are there any tricks that you’ve seen advisors over the years use where they can get present and really get down to the core of, “Hey, this individual I’m meeting with I could change not only their life but their kids’ lives, their grandkids lives where they have something they do before appointments to get them in that state of mind?”. – Carl Richards (The Behavior Gap) The problem is to recognize that, ... CFP Buying and selling happens in any market (whether stock, real estate, bonds and even vegetables). They care about their problems and you need to get better in understanding people’s problems. But if you feel thoroughly diagnosed, you just fill the prescription. I don’t remember it being bad. I’m sure a lot of your listeners can relate to this, sitting at a desk when I was a financial advisor, a big brokerage firm, it will go unnamed, but has a bull as its symbol and is owned by a bank sitting at a desk trying to explain a relatively complex subject to a client and these were smart like all of our clients, smart, intelligent, successful people. And that could be just come just a really fun game like I think of it as an academic trying to solve a problem like some of my favorite questions is what you just said, “Oh, I love listening Brian Koppelman has this great podcast called The Moment and you will hear him in the middle of conversation and he’ll go, “Keep going,” or he’ll say, “Go deeper,” like you just said. Thanks again for joining and be sure to tune in next week for another episode. Both the work that you do but more importantly, frankly, than the work you and I do, the work that you’re doing in a certain listener, watcher, viewer, I guess. "The original concept was that difference, but now we're trying to help people admit that it exists and realize that their job is not to find the best investment, but the best investor.". “I don’t much care where,” said Alice. I don’t know very many things that are more human than this unfortunate just the world we live in but this unfortunate relationship we have with money and then I think there’s the post. [00:43:03] Carl Richards: And she was like, “Of course, I know we can’t afford another one. Yeah. Let me wrap with this like please understand the work. Record the questions you asked. We just release the pressure so I use the word “gets”. This conversation definitely lived up to my expectations. They overcame both those barriers and they’re still there. So, thanks for bringing your knowledge and your work to the podcast today. Does Social Media Really Matter For Financial Advisors? Just like wanted to have the experience. I just wanted to make sure. Now that I know it came from John Bowen, I’m not interested. [00:50:11] Brad Johnson: If you could freestyle, I’m going to be super impressed. Also, for those of you all listening in that aren’t aware of the incredible #fintwit community out on Twitter, there are some absolutely incredible minds freely sharing their work you should be diving into conversations with… too many to name, but some of my favorite follows include, Ok, as we wrap this show, thanks again for those of you who have taken the time to write a quick review, I love reading each and every one. That could mean a lot of things to a lot of people, Julie. A no-holds barred conversation for Real Financial Advisors with industry nerd Michael Kitces and client communication expert Carl Richards. Well, I appreciate it, man. that have a massive impact on people's lives. We’ll have to go through these pretty quick. For those of you unfamiliar with Carl which I don’t think will be too many of you, he is a CFP and creator of the Sketch Guy column which has appeared weekly in the New York Times since 2010. They came to talk to you about money. And I’m not a question zealot and Bill rightfully so, teaches a way to do it and he doesn’t deviate from it. [00:02:24] Brad Johnson: Due to crazy high shipping prices, it just doesn’t make sense to spend $20 to $40 to ship you a $10 book so please accept my apology and just go support Carl and grab a copy at your local bookstore or out on Amazon. Not only do we read every single comment, but this will help the show rank and get discovered by new listeners. I would encourage it but if somebody was super busy and they needed help, like I just start from a place of like how can I help? And so, an easy way to do this where we say, “Look, we’re going to have a meeting once a week,” and let’s say there’s no advisors in your office and you go, “Fine,” like three or four other advisors outside of your office like colleagues, whatever. I was downloading Napster songs that took about 25 minutes at the time. So, there’s two ways I see this happening. Also, get access to WealthManagement.com exclusive articles with key takeaways that you can put into action at your own practice! Like I like to get up in people’s faces and then say, “Hey, but I also know how hard it is.” All I’m asking you gently to do is just like just remind yourself of the humanity of the work you’re doing and just pause and go…. I did that for a while in total like no one was watching. Things went well, and by 1999 I was a Merrill Lynch financial adviser and a certified financial planner. To make it easy, there’s a graphic right at the top of the show notes out to BradleyJohnson.com/61, that’s 61, or if you happen to be listening in on a mobile player, simply scroll down on most of them and tap the link. Okay. Yeah. So, that uncomfortable nature of it, lean into it. And Julie, longer pause, gets emotional and says, “Carl, I just want to have a family and I haven’t even had time to think about it.” And I’m like that’s relatively dramatic example, but of the hundreds of times I’ve done this, most of them are that far off. It’s amazing. Do you remember or do you want me to read it? Don’t use those words in front of a client but they didn’t know so you just clarified something that they didn’t even really know. So, go check it out. I think naturally, they want to just dive in like an engineer and start plan with all the different financial tools and explaining those and your book does a great job, The One-Page Financial Plan. We’ve got some amazing people when we’re learning a lot and we’re apparently not done learning from the experience yet. If you are part of The Society, log in here.. For an invitation to the next session of The Fellowship, enter your email below. I have special guest Carl Richards here with us today. So, that’s one like a pre-meeting ritual to sort of reconnecting your present, almost like a 32nd meditation and like and I love to think about it, what a sacred blessing. I mean not carefully like the better way to say this would be like I’m standing on the shoulder to people who did it long before me. [00:15:12] Carl Richards: Yeah. The difference is that you do it anyway. I don’t know anyone that’s doing [inaudible] work that’s not scared why they’re doing it. [00:45:04] Carl Richards: Well, and that’s just so important for like all of you listing like you have a really hard job and this is – everything we’re talking about here is just human nature. 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